Toke Makinwa Is Eccentric As She Covers Essays Of Africa Magazine South Africa

Media personality, Toke Makinwa  is eccentric in cover photos for Essays Of Africa Magazine in South Africa.

OC Ukeje Will Leave You Breathless In Dapper Photos As He Renews Deal With MultiChoice

Popular Nollywood Actor, OC Ukeje who just renewed his endorsement deal with MultiChoice released dapper new photos

This will be his second year as an ambassador for the global media giant.
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Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony 'Not Back Together' After Shannon De Lima Split

Marc Anthony and Shannon De Lima are calling it quits – but don't expect him to be finding comfort in the arms of an old flame.
Anthony and De Lima have separated after two years of marriage, according to reports. The couple had quietly married in the Dominican Republic in November of 2014 after dating for two years.




News of the split comes just one day after Anthony was spotted without his wedding ring at the Latin GRAMMYs, where he and ex-wife Jennifer Lopez also made headlines for exchanging a friendly kiss onstage after performing together. While the moment may have had some fans hoping for a rekindled romance between the two, a source tells ET that "Jennifer and Marc are not back together."
"That kiss onstage was totally innocent and egged on by the crowd," the source says. "Nothing there, nothing."
Anthony later poked fun at the moment – prompted by fans screaming "beso," the Spanish word for "kiss," from the audience -- by posting several photos of himself locking lips with other friends, both male and female.
This marks the third marriage and divorce for Anthony, 48, who was previously wed to former Miss Universe Dayanara Torres from 2000 to 2003, and to Lopez from 2004 to 2011. (The spouses separated in 2011, though their divorce was not finalized until 2014.)
In addition to his three children from his first marriage, Anthony is also a parent to 8-year-old twins Max and Emme with Lopez. The amicable exes have seemed to keep their relationship quite friendly through the years, with Anthony signing on to executive produce Lopez's upcoming all-Spanish album just last month.
Prior to her own split from Beau Casper Smart in August, Lopez even adorably posed with Anthony and her then-boyfriend backstage at her Vegas show. Later that night, she gave her ex-husband a cute shout-out during her performance, acknowledging his presence to her fans.
"You're an international legend and icon, but you're also my baby daddy," she joked as Anthony stood up and took a bow. The "You Sang to Me" singer was also visibly touched while Lopez performed one of her ballads during the concert and talked about their children as their photos came onscreen.

Meet the New President and Vice president of Actors Guild of Nigeria, Lagos State Chapter

The Actors Guild of Nigeria, Lagos Chapter has elected some executive members that would see to the affairs of the industry in the next two years.

The election which took place on Saturday 12th November, 2016 saw the multiple awards winning Actor, producer, Journalist and TV host, Don Pedro Aganbi as the new AGN Lagos state Chairman. While the actress cum singer, Dayo Amusa emerged as the vice chairman.
The general secretary was Jude Orhorha, an actor cum voice over artist. Others who occupied other leadership positions were: Mr.Oluwaseyi Copperfied, Financial Secretary, Mr. Oghenekaro Ogodo (Don Kaloti) PRO, Miss Rose Amra - Treasurer, Miss Blessing Anthony – Ani -  Assistant Secretary, Mr. Henry Osewenge - Chief Whip and Mr. Julius Omij - Director Guild Services.
Well we say congratulations to you Don Pedro and who to say you almost divided the AGN two years ago when former President Victor Osuagwu was declared winner.... congrats once again

Corruption: Charley Boy Prevented Movement To And From The National Assembly Complex

In a bid to bring an end to corruption in the country, Charles Oputa, also known as Charley Boy, has led protesters to the National Assembly, Premium Times reports.

The protesters on Tuesday prevented movement to and from the Assembly complex by blocking the main entrance of the gate by erecting five tents in front of the Assembly’s gate and stationed a van.
They are demanding the death penalty as punishment for stealing public funds; a slash of salaries of political office holders by 70 per cent; a stop of state/local government joint account; and public disclosure of details of National Assembly’s multi-billion naira budget.
They also want the National Assembly to review the constitution towards amending the clause that grants immunity to the president, vice-president, governors, and the deputy-governors. They want the law amended so the officials can be tried for criminal matters while in office.
They also demanded the scrapping of the Senate, as they want a unicameral legislature.

Carrie Fisher Reveals She Had an Affair With Harrison Ford on Star Wars: ‘It Was So Intense’

Carrie Fisher is finally going public with a secret she has guarded closely for 40 years: When she was 19, she and Harrison Ford, then a 33-year-old married father of two, had a whirlwind three-month affair while filming the original Star Wars in 1976.
“It was so intense,” the actress-author, 60, tells PEOPLE exclusively of the real-life romance die-hard fans of the franchise have wished for since Han Solo and Princess Leia captured hearts on-screen.
“It was Han and Leia during the week, and Carrie and Harrison during the weekend,” she says.
After stumbling on often angst-ridden journals she kept while filming on location in London, she felt the time had come to open up about the formative experience. “It’s been 40 years,” explains Fisher, who went on to write The Princess Diarist, excerpted exclusively in this week’s issue.
Ford, who had a heads-up about the book from Fisher and received a draft, didn’t respond to PEOPLE’S request for comment.
After spending their first night together following a birthday party for director George Lucas, Fisher was wracked by self-doubt.
“I looked over at Harrison. A hero’s face — a few strands of hair fell over his noble, slightly furrowed brow,” she writes. “How could you ask such a shining specimen of a man to be satisfied with the likes of me?”
Although their unlikely romance took Fisher by complete surprise and ran its course once the film wrapped, she remembers the time fondly.
“I was so inexperienced, but I trusted something about him,” she says. “He was kind.”

The Latest: Mayor resigns for response to racist post

CHARLESTON, W.Va. — The Latest on the fallout from a racist comment about first lady Michelle Obama that a local West Virginia official posted on Facebook (all times local):
4:30 p.m.
The town recorder in Clay, West Virginia, says the mayor has resigned following her response to a racist post on Facebook about first lady Michelle Obama.
Joe Coleman said Tuesday that Mayor Beverly Whaling's resignation is effective immediately.
Whaling earlier apologized for her response to a post made by Clay County Development Corp. director Pamela Ramsey Taylor after Republican Donald Trump's election as president. Taylor's post said, "It will be refreshing to have a classy, beautiful, dignified First Lady in the White House. I'm tired of seeing a Ape in heels."
Whaling responded: "Just made my day Pam."
Whaling said earlier she isn't racist. Taylor hasn't returned a call seeking comment.
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11:15 a.m.
The mayor of a West Virginia town has issued an apology for her response to a racist post on Facebook about first lady Michelle Obama.
Clay Mayor Beverly Whaling says her comment wasn't intended to be racist.
Clay County Development Corp. director Pamela Ramsey Taylor made the post following Republican Donald Trump's election as president, saying: "It will be refreshing to have a classy, beautiful, dignified First Lady in the White House. I'm tired of seeing a Ape in heels."
Clay Mayor Beverly Whaling responded: "Just made my day Pam."
Whaling said in a statement sent to news media that she was referencing the change in the White House. She says she isn't racist.
Taylor did not return a call seeking comment.
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8:20 a.m.
A local West Virginia official said she has been placed on leave after she made a racist post on Facebook about first lady Michelle Obama.
Clay County Development Corp. director Pamela Ramsey Taylor made the post following Republican Donald Trump's election as president, saying: "It will be refreshing to have a classy, beautiful, dignified First Lady in the White House. I'm tired of seeing a Ape in heels."
Clay Mayor Beverly Whaling responded: "Just made my day Pam."
Taylor told WCHS-TV on Monday night that she was put on leave.
Clay's town council planned to discuss the issue at a previously scheduled meeting Tuesday evening.
The post, first reported by WSAZ-TV, has caused a backlash and prompted calls for Taylor and Mayor Whaling to be fired. The post was shared hundreds of times on social media before it was deleted. The Facebook pages of Taylor and Whaling couldn't be found Monday.

I WAS WORKING AS AN UNOFFICIAL P.A "MARTIN GOODMAN"

MARTIN GOODMAN in an interview with SGNN unfolds his career, lifestyle, among others.


LET'S MEET YOU
Am Martin Goodman Ikechukwu Nwaodazie, am from Imo State

WHEN DID YOUR PASSION FOR FILM MAKING START
I'll say in the year 1996, then i started following some great film makers like Izu Ojukwu and Emeka Hill Umeasor but mainly then i was working as an unofficial P.A ( production assistant) which means nobody appointed me as a production assistant, i just threw myself into the job primary because i wanted to learn, it was really fun.

 TELL US ABOUT YOUR FIRST JOB
The first job i did was as a location manager, it was in a hausa film, i did that job without being paid a penny

WHICH ARTIST DO YOU ENJOY WORKING WITH?
I have worked with great actors who were fun to work with, but particularly i enjoy working with Imeh Bishop Umoh and Uche Jombo because of their calm nature on set.

ASIDE FROM DIRECTING OR PRODUCING WHAT ELSE DO YOU DO?
Make up and set design

CAN YOU MENTION SOME THE MOVIES YOU PRODUCED?
Well i co-produced greedy professor, visit from the past, guns and casket,and masters at war these were produced by me and will hit the market soon, i directed visit from the past..

WHO DO YOU LOOK UP TO IN THE INDUSTRY?
I look up to Emeka Hill and Izu Ojukwu, these men really inspire me and i learn a lot from them.

TELL US YOUR BIGGEST CHALLENGE IN THE INDUSTRY
There are various challenges in the industry presently but when the going gets tough the tough gets going, and as the said in the local parlance the show must go on.....(laughs)

WHERE DO YOU SEE YOUR SELF IN FIVE YEARS?
In the next five years i hope to see myself as a great film maker of repute

LISTEN AND DOWNLOAD "what you got" BY RE-SOUND

Yes its  finally  here "what you got" by re-sound.... lets hear your take on this very long awaited single.
listen to the song after the cut.

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Many questions and few answers about how Melania Trump immigrated to the U.S.

Newly published nude photographs of Melania Trump, the wife of Republican presidential candidate Donald Trump, have raised questions about the story of her immigration to the United States and how the Slovenian-born former model gained her legal status here — questions that the Trump campaign is not answering.
Melania Trump has said she came to the country in 1996, but the photos were taken in New York in 1995. She met Donald Trump in 1998 and they were married in 2005. So what do we know about how Melania Trump came to the United States?
Q: What has Melania said about her immigration?
A: Melania Trump has said she came to the United States on a legal visa in 1996, got a green card in 2001 and then became a U.S. citizen in 2006.
“I came here for my career,” she told Harper’s Bazaar in January. “I did so well. I moved here. It never crossed my mind to stay here without papers. That is just the person you are. You follow the rules. You follow the law. Every few months you need to fly back to Europe and stamp your visa. After a few visas, I applied for a green card and got it in 2001. After the green card, I applied for citizenship. And it was a long process.”
Then, in February, she told MSNBC: “I follow a law the way it’s supposed to be. I never thought to stay here without papers. I had visa. I travel every few months back to the country, to Slovenia, to stamp the visa. I came back. I applied for the green card. I applied for the citizenship later on after many years of green card. So I went by system. I went by the law, and you should do that.”
On Thursday, Melania Trump tweeted an additional explanation — but no additional details:
“Let me set the record straight,” she wrote. “I have at all times been in full compliance with the immigration laws of this country. Period.”

Q: Who sponsored Melania to come to the United States? What kind of visa did she hold?

A: The Trump campaign has been vague. This week, Trump campaign spokeswoman Hope Hicks responded to a list of detailed questions of Melania Trump’s immigration status with only one line: “Melania followed the laws and is now a proud United States citizen.”
Most of what we know about how she first came to the United States comes from Paolo Zampolli, an Italian-born businessman based in New York who once owned modeling agencies.
He told The Washington Post this week that his agency, Metropolitan Models, sponsored Melania Knauss for an H-1B work visa in 1996 after he spotted her while scouting models in Milan and Paris. Working models are eligible for an H-1B if they can show “distinguished merit or ability” in their field. Zampolli said Melania Knauss qualified based on her past work as a model in Europe.
Q: So she has said she came in 1996?
A: Yes, multiple times. Her official biography in the program of the Republican National Convention in Cleveland last week indicated she came to the U.S. in 1996. So did her biography on the Trump Organization website. That page was recently taken down after it emerged that a line indicating that Melania Trump had earned a college degree at a Slovenian university was false; she studied at the school before dropping out to pursue modeling in Paris and Milan.
Q: But the nude photographs were taken in New York City in 1995?
A: Correct. The photographs originally appeared in the French magazine Max and were published again in the New York Post last weekend. Marc Dolisi, chief editor of Max at the time, told The Washington Post that the pictures appeared in the February 1996 edition of the magazine and had been shot in November or December of 1995. Jarl Ale de Basseville, the photographer, said the shoot was conducted in New York.
Q: How can the discrepancy be explained?
A: Only Melania Trump can explain the discrepancy, which was first reported by Politico. The campaign has not responded to questions asking how those photos could be shot in 1995 if Melania Trump arrived in 1996.
Q: So does that mean Melania Trump was in the United States illegally in 1995?
A: It’s not clear. Dolisi and de Basseville both told The Washington Post that Melania Trump was not compensated for the Max magazine photo shoot. She was a relatively unknown model at the time. Taking part in magazine photo spreads for free is common for models at that level because the exposure can help them secure commercial work.
Q: Why is it important that Trump was not paid?
A: Without pay, she could have been here legally on a visitor’s visa. Foreigners coming to the United States for brief stays can obtain B1 or B2 visitor’s visas allowing them to stay in the United States as either a tourist or a visiting businessperson attending a meeting or other work event. It is, however, illegal to work in the United States on a visitor’s visa; that kind of illegal work has tripped up many other people who wish to legally immigrate to the U.S. People being issued a visitor’s visa are asked both at an embassy or consulate abroad and at the airport upon arrival whether they intend to work. If they come to the U.S. planning to work and claim otherwise, that’s immigration fraud.
It is unclear, however, if she got any other kind of compensation during her 1995 stay, such as airfare and lodging.
Q: Did Melania Trump ever come to the United States on a visitor’s visa?
A: We don’t know. The Trump campaign has not answered this question.
Q: Did Melania Trump do any other work in the United States prior to 1996?
A: We don’t know. The Trump campaign has not answered this question.
When she first arrived in the United States, Melania Trump shared an apartment for a time with Matthew Atalian, a photographer who was friendly with Paolo Zampolli. In an interview, he said she moved in either in 1995 or in 1996 and lived with him for about a year and a half. He said he agreed to let her move in with him at the request of Zampolli, who paid her rent. His understanding at the time, he said, was that she was “fresh” to the United States.
Q: Melania Trump described having to return to Slovenia every few months to get her visa stamped, citing her willingness to undertake these trips as a commitment to complying with U.S. immigration law. Why did she need to do this?
A: We don’t know. The Trump campaign would not answer this question.
Immigration experts said that people who receive H1-B visas typically receive them for three years and are able to renew them for another three years. They expressed some confusion as to why Melania Trump would need to periodically return to Slovenia if she held an H-1B visa. However, several said there are reasons why the specifics of her situation might have required it. Only Melania Trump could describe her own experience.
Q: How did Melania Trump get a green card?
A: We don’t know. The Trump campaign would not answer this question.
A green card allows a foreigner to permanently reside in the United States. It is the golden ticket of the U.S. immigration system and highly sought after by millions of immigrants.
There are several avenues Melania Trump could have pursued to get a green card. She could have won a lottery for people who immigrate from countries that don’t have high immigration rates to the United States.
She could have sought a green card as a person of extraordinary ability, though experts cast doubt that she had been sufficiently successful in her modeling career to qualify in this category.
She could have been sponsored for a green card by an employer who made a case that there were no Americans available to fill a particular job. That process is not easy; it requires the employer to show that they have attempted to fill the job, by advertising it publicly. Michael Wildes, an immigration lawyer who has done work for the Miss Universe pageant and the Trump Organization, said his firm will typically not help models pursue this kind of green card, as it is too difficult to show that a modeling job could not be filled by an American. He said, however, that models can sometimes qualify for a green card on these grounds by seeking employment in a different field for which they are also qualified, like graphic design. Wildes said he did not have permission from the Trump Organization to comment on any specific case, including Melania Trump’s.
Immigrants can also obtain a green card through marriage. Melania and Donald Trump were married in a very public ceremony in 2005, four years after she has said she obtained her green card.
Q: Shouldn’t there be some documents available that would shed light here?
A: Certainly. But experts said Melania Trump’s immigration records would typically not be available for public release without her permission. The Washington Post asked Hicks to release copies of these records; she did not respond to this question.
Q: Isn’t it hypocritical for the Trump campaign not to answer these questions, given that Trump has made cracking down on illegal immigration the centerpiece of his campaign? And given that he waged a very public campaign to insist that President Obama release a copy of his birth certificate to prove that he was born in the United States?
In March, Donald Trump said he was “totally committed to eliminating rampant, widespread H-1B abuse and ending outrageous practices such as those that occurred at Disney. I will end forever the use of H-IB as a cheap labor program, and institute an absolute requirement to hire American workers first.”
A: That’s a question for the voters.
Alice Crites contributed to this report.

Re-Sound Is In Town With A New Single

Yes you read that right Victor Sunday aka (stage name) Re-sound is about to drop his second single since the first one in 2009.
The Akwa-Ibom born artist is said to be in the studio recording his second single... though you will agree with me that he has kept his fans waiting for so long, hopefully they don't forget him. more updates coming to you soon on Re-sound...

Rita Dominic's Surprise Gift To Her Fans

The actress who marked her birthday on the 13th July decided yesterday to appreciate her fans on Instagram by sending them airtime worth 20 thousand Naira. We at SGNN say a happy belated birthday to the Diva and God bless your kind heart for having your fans in mind....

Genevieve Nnaji brutally attacked by angry fans

Nollywood's sweetheart, Genevieve Nnaji has been brutally attacked by her angry fans on Instagram after she posted her commiseration with the people of France in the wake of the terror attack they suffered yesterday.

Genny as she is fondly called by colleagues and close friends, posted the French flag and praying for them. She wrote: "Father into thy hands I commend their spirit #prayforparis#prayforjustice. But her fans didn't like that at all and they attacked her from every angle for not praying for Nigeria when such happens.

Tom Hiddleston on His New Relationship with Taylor Swift: 'It's Not a Publicity Stunt,' Says the Actor

Tom Hiddleston put to rest any remaining questions about the legitimacy of HiddleSwift on Thursday.
"We are together and we're very happy," he told MTV in an interview about his new relationship while speaking about his first Emmy nomination.
He also toldThe Hollywood Reporter the relationship "is not a publicity stunt."
The Thor star received a nod for Lead Actor in a Limited Series or Movie for his role as a former British soldier who becomes an undercover spy in AMC's six-part miniseries, The Night Manager.

Trump postpones VP announcement, citing France attacks

WASHINGTON (AP) — Donald Trump abruptly postponed plans to announce his vice presidential pick following a day of rampant speculation, citing the "horrible attack" in Nice, France, that left scores dead.
Trump had planned to hold his first event with his yet-to-be-named running mate Friday morning in New York. He announced the change of plans Thursday evening on Twitter.
The stunning announcement raised questions about the status of Trump's selection process. Indiana Gov. Mike Pence had emerged as a late favorite for the job, though Trump said he had not finalized the pick and advisers cautioned he could change his mind.
"I haven't made my final, final decision," Trump said on Fox News Channel. He said that while his running mate selection would "absolutely not" be changed by the France attack, he did not feel it was appropriate to hold a news conference in its aftermath.
Dozens of people were killed late Thursday in the French resort city of Nice when a truck drove onto a sidewalk and plowed through a crowd of Bastille Day revelers who'd gathered to watch fireworks.
In addition to Pence, Trump's shortlist included former House Speaker Newt Gingrich and New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie, according to people familiar with the candidate's thinking.
After spending much of Thursday in Indianapolis, Pence flew to New York late in the day, according to a Republican familiar with the process. Indianapolis television station WTHR posted a video showing Pence arriving at a private airport outside New York early Thursday evening.
Trump did not say when he planned to announce his running mate. He's up against a clock: The Republican convention kicks off in Cleveland Monday.
Top party officials are already in Cleveland, grappling with a rules fight that increased the odds of nationally televised clashes at the convention. Talks broke down Thursday between party leaders and recalcitrant conservatives seeking to "unbind" convention delegates and let them back any presidential candidate they'd like.
Conservatives hope that would lead to delegates blocking Trump's nomination.
The convention and vice presidential announcement give Trump back-to-back opportunities to reassure Americans — as well as leaders within his own party — that he's prepared for the presidency.
Pence, a staunch conservative who served six terms in Congress, is seen as a running mate who would have the backing of GOP leaders and ease some of their concerns about Trump's political inexperience and volatile temperament.
He has influential allies in Trump's inner circle. But some of Trump's children, who have been closely advising their father, are said to favor different candidates.
Campaign chair Paul Manafort was among those urging caution in assuming any decision Thursday, saying on Twitter that Trump's choice "will be made in the near future."
As the day began, it appeared the decision would come quickly. Gingrich, the fiery Republican who helped define the political battles of the 1990s, told The Associated Press that Trump was supposed to let him know something in the afternoon. But by early evening, Gingrich told the AP he had heard nothing from Trump or others in the campaign.
Other Republicans with knowledge of the process said there had been no calls to Pence or Christie, either.
The top contenders have been vetted by a top Washington lawyer and all have spent time with Trump in recent days. But the final decision rests with the candidate, who is known for making decisions more on instinct than other factors — and for sometimes changing his mind.
Trump was in California Thursday for several fundraisers. His schedule put him at a distance from many of his closest advisers, including Manafort and his three oldest children.
Pence is running for re-election, but Indiana law prevents him from seeking two offices at once. He faces a Friday deadline to withdraw from the governor's race.
The paperwork has been drawn up for him to take that step, according to a Republican, who insisted on anonymity because that person was not authorized to publicly discuss the plans. However, those documents have not been filed.
Christie, in New Jersey, said in an interview with MSNBC, "No matter what phone call (Trump) makes to me today, I will take a deep breath and prepare for tomorrow." That interview came hours before David Samson, whom Christie appointed to chair the powerful Port Authority of New York and New Jersey, pleaded guilty to scheming to get United Airlines to run direct flights between New Jersey and South Carolina, where he has a vacation home.
Gingrich was the most visible of the contenders. As speculation about his future swirled, he calmly answered questions about the selection process on Facebook Live, saying he had told Trump the choice was between having "two pirates on the ticket or a pirate and a relatively stable, more normal person."
Beyond their political backgrounds, the finalists bring different strengths to the ticket.
Pence, 57, has deep ties to evangelical Christians and other conservatives, particularly after signing a law last year that critics said would have allowed businesses to deny service to gay people for religious reasons. But the move alienated some moderates in the party.
Trump took notice of Pence during the Indiana primary, noting that the governor had high praise for him despite endorsing one of his rivals.
Gingrich, 73, is something of a rabble-rouser who has spent decades in Washington. He has been a steadfast Trump defender for months and has become a trusted adviser to the businessman.
So, too, has Christie. The New Jersey governor quickly endorsed Trump after ending his own presidential bid, stunning many of his supporters.
A former U.S. attorney, Christie, 53, is widely seen as one of his party's most talented politicians and has proven himself an effective "attack dog" on the trail. He has also taken on the important role of heading Trump's transition planning.

UPGRADING THE SPOUSE "Teebillz and Tiwa"

I read Teebillz rants and watched the video interview of Tiwa savage, they are both disappointment to their fans and family... Here are my thoughts

To my hearing teebillz started it he messed her up and tiwa finished it she cleaned him out which took me back to a radio talk program i listen to few days ago with the topic upgrading your spouse... according to teebillz he want to venture into different types of business so he can support Jamil and tiwa but she wasn't supporting him because her mother had tied his star so tiwa can shine which made him look a bit jealous of her success that almost lead him to commit suicide if not for the intervention of Bankyw, meaning that tiwa and her mother are not in support of his upgrade. But in tiwa's interview she stated that she tried all she could to support him financially in all his doing but he just kept failing, including paying a debt of 4.5million naira for acquiring a car, which he claims is taking away his manhood, which simply means teebillz isn't ready to upgrade to her standard.
they both are trying so hard to make the other the bad guy which is an individual thing, clearly the both have issues..
This should serve as a lesson not just to teebillz and tiwa, celebrity couples, but to every one, because upgrading your spouse is an individual thing, upgrading yourself is an individual thing, being jealous and suicidal is individual.

the fallout of this impending and scandalous divorce wouldn't have gone this far if tiwa didn't allow herself into continue suffering by having an emotional reaction to what teebiilz said about her that lead to the video interview..

Tiwa this is for you= I love you, you're a Diva , true power is sitting back and observing everything with logic
true power is restraint... if words control you that means everyone can control you.. my dear breath and allow things to pass.